Six Goodbyes We Never Said Blog Tour

I’m so excited to be part of the blog tour for Six Goodbyes We Never Said, Candace Ganger’s heartfelt YA contemporary.

Six Goodbyes We Never Said is a story of loss and recovery gorgeously written in a unique, free-form style. Ganger displays deep command of perspective, alternating between the points of view of two complex teen characters. This OwnVoices representation of trauma and mental illness is heartfelt and piercing.

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Two teens meet after tragedy and learn about love, loss, and letting go.

Naima Rodriguez doesn’t want your patronizing sympathy as she grieves her father, her hero—a fallen Marine. She’ll hate you forever if you ask her to open up and remember him “as he was,” though that’s all her loving family wants her to do in order to manage her complex OCD and GAD. She’d rather everyone back the-eff off while she separates her Lucky Charms marshmallows into six, always six, Ziploc bags, while she avoids friends and people and living the life her father so desperately wanted for her. 

Dew respectfully requests a little more time to process the sudden loss of his parents. It’s causing an avalanche of secret anxieties, so he counts on his trusty voice recorder to convey the things he can’t otherwise say aloud. He could really use a friend to navigate a life swimming with pain and loss and all the lovely moments in between. And then he meets Naima and everything’s changed—just not in the way he, or she, expects. 

Candace Ganger’s Six Goodbyes We Never Said is no love story. If you ask Naima, it’s not even a like story. But it is a story about love and fear and how sometimes you need a little help to be brave enough to say goodbye. 

Content warnings for Six Goodbyes We Never Said include: death of a family member, grief, first-person trauma/PTSD, mental illness, OCD, anxiety

My Q & A with Candace Ganger

Through the blog tour, I had the chance to ask Candace Ganger a few questions about her experience writing Six Goodbyes We Never Said.

KATIE: How was the experience of writing SIX GOODBYES different than your experience writing your previous YA work? 

CANDACE: It was MUCH more taxing, emotionally. Whereas Birdie & Bash pulled from things family members endured, Six Goodbyes is focused on things I’ve experienced. It took a lot more out of me to capture my disorders in a way that those who didn’t previously understand, could. 

KATIE: Some parts of SIX GOODBYES seem to blur the line between prose and poetry. How would you describe the writing style you’re using in this book? 

CANDACE: Proseitry, maybe? I let myself freeform some of that when in a depressive mood or feeling like I’d spun out of control. Those were literal interpretations of my mood and emotional state in those moments.

KATIE: What drew you to writing a character like Naima? 

CANDACE: More like, how could I *not* write a character who is instantly unlikable and brash, but once you get to know her, you understand why. She’s a stronger version of who I was in middle school and, ironically, someone I’d be intimidated to befriend.

Candace Ganger also discusses this personal connection in her Author’s Note. Thanks to Wednesday Books for providing me with an excerpt of Six Goodbyes We Never Said:

Author’s Note for Six Goodbyes We Never Said

Hello, dear reader.

I think it should be known that, while Six Goodbyes is a work of fiction, I share the many characteristics, fears, and pains, in both the delicacy of Dew, and the confused ferocity in Naima. Please let this brief note serve as a trigger warning in regards to mental illness; self-care is of the utmost importance. And while I hope Six Goodbyes provides insight for those who don’t empathize, or comfort for those that do, I also understand everyone reacts differently.

Dew’s social anxiety is something I, and many others, struggle with. We carry on with our days and pretend it’s not as hard as it feels inside. Others can’t quite see how much it hurts but we so wish they could. Naima is the most visceral interpretation of all of my diagnosed disorders combined. Her obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and related tics, her intrusive thoughts, her utterly devastating and isolating depression, her generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), which makes her so closed off from the world, and her post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) from losing the biggest portion of her identity—those are all pieces of me. Very big pieces. They don’t define me, but it would be misleading if I didn’t admit they sometimes, mostly do. I’m imperfectly complicated like Naima. And though I’ve written extensively on both my mental illnesses and living biracial, between two worlds—never enough of one or the other; always only half of something and never whole or satiated—I often still feel misunderstood. Hopefully Dew and Naima’s stories will provide a little insight as to what it’s like inside their heads, and inside mine.

Both Dew and Naima want to hold on to the roots that have grounded them in their familiar, safe spaces. But once their meta- phorical trees are cut, and all the leaves shielding them from their pains have fallen and faded away, not even photosynthesis could bring them back to life. Those roots, Naima and Dew feel, will die off, and everything they had in their lives before will, too. There are many of you out there who feel the exact same way, but I assure you, Dew and Naima will find their way— they will grow new roots that flourish—and you, my darlings, will, too.

Thank you for reading, and may Six Goodbyes serve as permission to speak your truths—the good and the painful.

Here’s to another six airplanes for you to wish upon.

About the Author

Interview with Candace Ganger

Candace Ganger is the author of Six Goodbyes We Never Said and The Inevitable Collision of Birdie & Bash as well as a contributing writer for HelloGiggles and obsessive marathoner. Aside from having past lives as a singer, nanotechnology website editor, and world’s worst vacuum sales rep, she’s also ghostwritten hundreds of projects for companies, best-selling fiction and award-winning nonfiction authors alike. She lives in Ohio with her family. Find her on Twitter @candylandgang.

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